Not many people would believe that there's a silver lining when it comes to things like cancer. But there is. In fact, I think there are many, many layers of nice, shiny lining.
Perhaps the most pertinent silver lining is being able to reassess my life. Nothing like a shock to the system like cancer to put things in perspective and teach me to focus on the important things.
I've mentioned it before, and I'll say it again. One of these layers is the abundance of love and support I've received.
Another is all the amazing and beautiful people I've met, who I wouldn't have if I wasn't diagnosed.
Being asked to blog for the Mother's Day Classic was yet another. I felt really special that the crew at the Classic wanted me to write about my experience during the lead up to the event.
Yesterday, another silver lining was unearthed. While sitting at chemo, my oncologist came to visit. I wasn't expecting her and was surprised when she came to my chair, as there's many of her other patients who have chemo the same day as me. She is holding a symposium on women and cancer later in the year and wanted a patient to be part of her panel. She thought of me. Me! I said yes in a heartbeat. I feel incredibly honoured.
Cancer, like life, does have its ups and downs. And good things do come from bad. There is always a silver lining - you've just got to keep your eyes (and heart) open.
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It blows me away that you can find a silver lining within the challenges of breast cancer treatment. It is not by chance that your Oncologist chose you to join her at the symposium.....you inspire!
ReplyDeleteIt has been a joy and a delight to join you in your blogs as you face the various challenges along the way (I know you hate the word "journey"). I cry and I laugh as I read, but I am always uplifted. Keep it up, looking forward to the MDC. Lots of love.
Thank you for reminding me that there are indeed silver linings. How easily we forget!Each day we encounter grumpy people, annoyances that we blow out of proportion, routines that become humdrum, so many things we take for granted ... until someone or something gives us a much-needed tap on the shoulder. And you've done that for me today. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteThank you Simone, for your inspiration and strength, I know a lot of people would have crumpled having to go though what you are going through. And your light and energy are surely touching everyone you come into contact with. You no doubt are their silver lining!, So I will think of you and be reminded to find something good in every day.
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